Tips to Better Foreplay for Him

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There are numerous forums dedicated to better sexual relationships.  While reviewing some of these topics, threads, reports and other articles it seems that when the topic of foreplay is discussed, it revolves around what it will take to please the lady in their life.

Lately, the trend is beginning to shift and many ladies are questioning the best ways to please their man.  This article will address a few tips and tricks that can be performed to enhance the sexual pleasure for you both.  There are many comments regarding men and the issue of erections.  How long will it last without the use of pills? 

Not to worry.  Our first tip has nothing to do with erections.  To begin a great sexual experience with your man, begin by helping him to unwind after a long, difficult week.  Begin by giving him a relaxing massage.  This will give you two an intimate sharing time together without the pressure associate with a need to perform.  And by beginning with a massage, it is very easy to segue into foreplay of a more expressive nature.

As your massage is winding down, now is the time to begin touching, kissing and rubbing of a different nature.  Again, make sure to take your time.  Do not jump around.  If you start to kiss his neck, do not move to the backs of his knees without maintaining some form of contact the entire time. 

Men enjoy being touched as much as women, so use caresses, light touching, and kissing.  Begin by kissing his chest, once your way slowly down his torso to his penis.  Use your fingernails to gently trail along his sides providing a tingling sensation that will keep him occupied.  Once you have reached his penis and testicles, do not stop there.  Go to the outer thighs, making sure to rub your body against him as much as possible.

You want to keep him guessing as to when/if you will be performing oral sex.  Remember, teasing can be fun.  Continue to move from his thighs to his chest using your lips, tongue, fingers, and fingertips.  As you pass his penis and testicles stop for a few seconds.  Begin oral sex, but not for long.  Every time you move across his body, make sure to stay for a little longer.

Once you have decided that you are ready, begin to perform oral sex without lengthy breaks in between.  Keep in mind, for some men, once this action is taken, they may not want you to stop. 

There have been numerous threads dedicated to the prostate massage.  Men have been noted to not allow this action to be taken, as they feel it may have homosexual tendencies. This is not the situation. If someone enjoys this, there is nothing wrong with it.  If this is your first time, here is what you should begin doing.

Once your partner is relaxed and is ready, insert a well lubricated finger into his anus.  If you are facing your partner you will locate a rounded bump approximately 2 inches inside the rectum.  Apply gentle pressure to the prostate to massage him and give pleasure he has never known before.

Always communicate with each other.  Watch for signs that what you are doing is enjoyable.  Foreplay should not make someone uncomfortable with themselves or you.  Talk about things that you want to do, and ask about anything that he knows that he enjoys.

Remember to keep it enjoyable!!