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My husband and I have been married 10 years, together for 16. We are best friends, intimate lovers and true soulmates. Over the years, we found we truly enjoy the gift of massage. We have enjoyed couples massage but receive most massages seperate from each other. Over the last year, I have been fortunate to be getting my massages at home from a wonderful male therapist. I receive my massage nude and have come to the comfort level of no draping. My last massage visit had something different happen that took me by surprise. My therapist asked at the end of my massage if there as an area of my body that he had been leaving out that may need some attention. His hand position at that moment gave no doubt what “an area” meant. I told him I was unable to accept but thanked him for the offer. Later, I told my husband and he gave his approval to accept the offer next visit if I desired. This is no doubt out of his love for me! Would other wives feel this way and accept this “additional area”?
Just to clarify as it looks as if “the area” was in fact still questionable what that area is. I (we…my husband and I) believe a full body massage includes the buttocks and breasts, we have always agreed this and had no problems with it…its common in all other cultures except Western culture (America). My buttocks was included within the first couple sessions (under draping), my breasts maybe 5 or 6 sessions later (I receive massages 2-4 times a month). The draping was removed simply out of convenience and comfort once I indicated to the therapist it was OK. I have been receiving my massage now for approx. 1 year nude w/ no draping including my buttocks and breasts. So therefore “the area” is my anal and vaginal area. And for the record, my husband does also give me full body massage and includes these areas when he does. This is about allowing the therapist to do so also to bring our sessions to a higher level of release and satisfaction. Thanks everyone!
1 more thing: The question is about “would you accept the offer?” so therefore the your husband’s have already said you can if you want. I am asking for married women to be honest in stating if they would accept if given the OK from their husband’s to do so. So its not a question of “first of my husband would not allow this”. Thanks!
how funny…I knew that answer was coming eventually. “This means your husband is enjoying this offer himself from his therapist”. We are best friends, intimate lovers and true soulmates for a reason. We have been together for 16 years and married 10 for the same reason. Reason: Trust, Honesty, Respect and Communication (that includes those elements). I can stand up for my husband and say that “he is not receiving this service from his therapist” because if it had been offered he would have came to me with it just as I came to him. And for the record, “would I mind if he was receiving this service from his therapist”. I don’t truthfully know. If we get there, we will discuss it and I will decided then. Do I love and trust him enough to allow him this if he desired, yes I do! Does he love and respect me enough to accept if I said no, yes he does! Thanks everyone…
why when we read do you choose to to only understand part of what we have just read? Its called perception. Once we have already precieved the situation, we close out any further influence apart from the perception made. Point 1: We have been recieving massage for approx. half (8) of the years we’ve been married. Point 2: Have never had a massage in this time period that was not fully nude…no matter the therapist, male or female. We do not have any concern with our nudity in this practice or at all for that matter. Point 3: If we were getting divorced because of some form of jealousy, guilt, shame, conviction…we would have already done that. For approx. 8 years, we have both been naked in front of mutiple others with hands as close as you can get to a genital area without it being direct. Point 4: Appears most married women live with the spirit of adultry. In fear that if they or their spouse was put in a place of temptation, they could not resist. The enemy has you here…
Sorry! I put in Point 1 above “approx. half of the years we have been married”. Should have said, half the years we have been together almost all the years we have been married. And, thank-you for the answers,,,its helps us to truly see that we have a sacred marriage bond much more as He created it to be than most others. A bond without jealousy, shame, guilt, fustration, dishonesty, mistrust, nonrespect, etc…all the emotions of the enemy. Instead we have a marriage of love, respect, honor, sacrifice, joy fulfilled…all the emotions of our Creator.

Was it relaxing, or were you too tense with a women rubbing your boobs? Thanks for the help. Keep inappropriate comments to yourself please!
Obviously this would be in a professional place. My boyfriend has done it but… not experianced.
No! It exists for men and women. Not kidding. The person has to have a special liscense and everything.

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Legally speaking, erotic massage is not available for men or women in all of the United States except Nevada. Massage as a practice is heavily regulated by respective state boards, (almost) all of which prohibit any act deemed inappropriate for a therapeutic setting. For example, Section 29.1(b)(5) of the Regents regulations on massage practice in New York State prohibits “immoral conduct,” which is defined as massage of genital areas and massage of a client who is not properly draped for massage, or by a massage therapist who is not properly dressed.

A licensed massage/bodywork therapist is, in fact, required by law to stop practicing the moment he or she suspects that the client would like something more than a good neck rub, shoulder work, etc. That said, erotic massage for women is, nonetheless attainable, despite its spurious legal status in the US.

A simple web search of “massage for women” brought up a number of services, which tended to call their service “sensual” massage, while advertising “gorgeous hunks” (as per Hunkmania website). Indeed, another service accessible at Malecourtesan website offered the willing lady an “exclusive paramour for sensuous fulfillment & tender intimacy!” Now, that sounds not only erotic, but a little creepy. After the guy rubs you down to your heart’s content, it seems he will cuddle with you, too. In addition, there are a fair number of “tantric erotic massages” available, except I am pretty sure that “tantric” is supposed to refer to thoughts and not any sort of touch.

At any rate, these kinds of services can also be found in the back pages of most free-weekly newspapers, and are searchable on craigslist. I would guess that practically any advertised male-escort serviceman would be willing to provide erotic massage for a sizable tip.

It is difficult to ascertain what exactly these services mean by “sensual massage,” and it is important to note, that as erotic massage (for pay) is illegal, practitioners that provide this kind of service have to be very careful about how and what they advertise. A licensed massage therapist friend of mine told me that therapists will often check into the nature of questionable practices, and report any and all illegal activity. It seems that even the seemingly benign business of relaxation is quite cut-throat.

However, the woman that would like to purchase an erotic massage, but does not want to take part in an illegal activity, can always take her business outside of the US. Among other nations, Japan, Thailand, and New Zealand stand out as havens for erotic massage. Because Japanese law is famously lax regarding prostitution, prohibiting only full on coitus, there is quite an array of erotic services available legally.

According to Feministing website, there has been an increase in the amount of middle aged (40-50) year old Japanese housewives requesting erotic massage from “rent-a-fling” services. To be fair, it has been socially acceptable for Japanese men to receive such services from girls, so this recent surge is kind of a backlash of sorts.

As with anything, it seems that if a woman really wants an erotic massage, she will find it without too much trouble. Well, possibly some legal trouble, but I guess that is another story.

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Women often find themselves worn thin by life and the on going stress of caring for others. Erotic massage can be particularly beneficial to them worn thin by life and the stress of caring for others.  It is a woman’s nature to give more than they receive and with the demands of work and family they understandably become overwhelmed and exhausted. Massage in general and erotic massage in particular can be extremely beneficial to women, providing them with relaxation and invigoration.

Massage requires nothing from the receiver but to lie back and enjoy. This is something most women have difficulty doing but is a necessary component to erotic massage. With repetition and practice the benefits of learning to receive will carry over into other parts of life and lead to a more balanced existence. There are no expectations but pleasure with erotic massage and the absence of goals helps eliminate a woman’s never ending drive to please others. For once she can allow herself to indulge in the healing properties of touch.

Regardless of age, health or general well-being, erotic massage is beneficial to all women. It can help diminish pain from injury or illness both physical and emotional.  Erotic massage relaxes the body and allows positive healing energy to create renewal.  If a woman is having difficulties with their sexuality and self esteem massage can free them from these inhibiting mental and emotional restrictions. The power of touch in erotic massage can remove roadblocks to enjoyment and pleasure resulting in a stronger sense of self and a fuller awareness of ones sensuality. It can help women to accept and experience the sensations of their bodies and they may become orgasmic for the first time.

Massage creates an environment of trust and openness. Tantric massage by definition insists on acceptance and honesty, openness and communication. The giver focuses absolutely on the needs and pleasures of the receiver and their whole desire and purpose is to give to the receiver. The receiver’s only responsibly is to lie back and allow the healing work and pleasure to take place. Erotic massage can sometimes bring hurt and pain to the surface in the process, but this is to be expected.  Allowing pain to rise to the surface is the first step in letting it go and replacing it with more positive energy.  As a result those participating in erotic massage often come away with an improved sense of well-being and self-acceptance.

Enhanced spirituality and a greater connection with the universe is often a result of massage. Its healing properties bring participants into closer union with each other and with the totality of life. Women are able to participate more fully in the richness of their femininity and come to appreciate more fully what it means to be a woman and all it has to offer.

It heals, revives and renews the mind, body and spirit, thus bringing a greater sense of wholeness.  As a woman becomes more integrated and accepting of who they are they will discover new levels of energy and creativity they have not experience previously. They will find it easier to enjoy intimate relationships in the future and will feel a greater sense of self esteem.

Massage improves the look, feel and health of the skin. Combined with enhanced self-confidence and greater levels of relaxation, women who participate in massage frequently often appear more radiant and healthy looking.

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