In the medical field, shouldn’t touching a nude body be the same as an attorney touching his briefcase?

Being in the medical industry for 15 yrs, I have had contact with numerous nude bodies.Yet in this field it is nothing sexual whatsoever! I view it the same as an attorney having contact with his breifcase, or an auto salesman touching a car, or a farmer touching animals or a cook touching food etc. It is only a job.I was a massage therapist before I married and my then boyfriend loved it.Yet as soon as we were married he demanded that I cut all male clients.Imagine walking into an office of a doctor, dentist, physical therapist, massage therapist, chiropractor, etc. and reading a huge sign that says.”Happy to serve all Female patients or clients only”.That would be stupid and absurred & thats what I told my husband.Im sad that he is so jealous & insecure, and I dont just blow off his feelings & insecurities yet I cant let it cut into my career.I certainly dont get turned on when my OB/GYN makes me spread eagle while giving me an exam. Nor would I care if my husband became an OB/GYN