The art of sensual message is becoming increasingly popular. The stress and strain of modern life has created a need for relaxation and physical release. The new sensual massage relaxes, invigorates and creates joy and abandon in those who participate in it.
Nothing feels better than the firm yet gentle touch of the person you love. Abandoning our defenses, letting down our guard, relaxing into the warmth of touch is life altering. Add the wonder of scent to the mix and you can create a romantic moment like none other.
If you choose to gift your partner with a sensual massage you will be giving yourself a gift as well. While you touch and explore his/her body and take those special moments to be intimate and loving you will find yourself relaxed and invigorated.
Touch can be magical to both giver and receiver. The new sensual message can be invited into any situation but planning ahead can make it even more special. Send your loved one a message by phone or text inviting them to an evening of touch. Set the tone with soft music, low lights, and a heady mix of candles, lotions and aromas.
You will find essential oils for any occasion. Choose mandarin or nutmeg for stimulation; mint or orange to invigorate; chamomile or lavender for relaxation; rosewood or sandalwood for seduction; cinnamon or jasmine for seduction.
Whether you use a massage table or a bed, make sure it is warm and comfortable in the room. Make sure neither of you are hungry or thirsty nor still full from eating. You do not want any physical distractions.
Begin your sensual massage by having your partner lie on their back. A full body massage is always the best. You can work in any order that feels comfortable to you but keep at least one hand in contact with your partner at all times. Warm any oils you use in your hands before applying.
You can start with your partner’s feet; make sure you work both sides equally. Gently massage all parts of the foot, including each toe, arch and ankle, working your way up each leg. Keep yourself relaxed as you go, making an effort not to tense your own muscles as you are working. Practice deep breathing as you go.
Use smooth, rhythmic strokes being carefully not to move suddenly or unexpectedly. The key to the sensual massage is touch of all kinds. Gentle, soft, firm, but constant. A full body message should last a minimum of 30 minutes, so pace yourself if you are the giver. The receiver will be comfortable for hours.
The sensual couple massage involves taking turns with a full body massageand can go as far as your imagination can take you. Spend plenty of time with each other learning the curves and valleys of each other’s bodies and indulging each other without expectation. Revel in gentle kisses and reap the rewards of giving slowly and freely to one another.
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Sexual relations can foster union and harmony if a couple is kind to each other throughout the day and also learns some simple love-making techniques to create peace and satisfaction in their sex life.
We can think of sexual relations as a balancing of the male and female energies. The most satisfying lovemaking does not end in sexual explosion. It ends in peace. For this kind of balance and peace to arise, time is required. If intercourse lasts at least half an hour, with deep, gentle penetration, a couple will cultivate love and peace together. Unfortunately it can be difficult for a man to delay ejaculation for the length of time required to reach this state of loving surrender. Unfulfilling sexual encounters will create tension, even anger, in a once loving relationship. Tantric and Taoist texts recommend that a man strengthen his prostate through exercise. A stronger prostate will allow the man to delay, or even avoid, ejaculation. The resulting longer intercourse will allow the balancing of energies, fostering peace and love in the relationship.
The prostate is a few inches back from the anus. When a man tightens and relaxes his anus, he automatically massages and strengthens his prostate. (This is called Kegel’s exercise.) A man can do this exercise at any time, day, or night, to strengthen his prostate. He can also do the exercise during sexual relations. During sexual relations the exercise causes increased circulation to the prostate, which causes the prostate to partially empty semen into the man’s own blood stream. The partial emptying of the prostate takes away the urgency to ejaculate, and allows intercourse to continue. The exercise can be repeated every so often during intercourse as long as the couple desires to continue relations. If a man wishes to avoid ejaculation completely, he can do so without harm if he does Kegel’s exercise after intercourse. Kegel’s exercise empties the prostate into the blood stream and eliminates the erection. In this way his lovemaking is more harmonious and his physical and emotional energy are conserved. For More information on this topic, see The Tao of Sexology, by Dr. Stephen Chang.
Important: Even if a man learns to avoid ejaculation, pregnancy is possible. The man’s arousal fluid, called Cowper’s fluid, contains sperm. Cowper’s fluid leaks out of the penis during sexual arousal. In addition, seminal fluid, containing millions of sperm, may leak out of the penis during sexual arousal but before ejaculation. For these reasons, pregnancy is possible with no ejaculation. Even with no penetration, the microscopic sperm can swim in the woman’s fertile-type mucus, into her vagina and up to her fallopian tubes. Therefore, during the fertile time, pregnancy is possible with only genital contact (touching of the penis near the vagina.)
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