Once you’ve set the mood and relaxed your partner, you’re ready to begin massaging their genitals. At this stage, communication and attentiveness are particularly important. Begin by gently cupping their genitals and be sure to make eye contact. Wait for permission to continue.
Massaging the Lingam (male sex organs).
Tantra adherents practice a “no-ejaculation” policy, believing that the energies released during orgasm are best put to other uses. For the purposes of couple massage, however, orgasm is often considered an important element to a successful massage.
An intense orgasm may leave a male partner too exhausted to continue, so in opposite sex couples, it’s helpful to have the woman receive her massage first, or at a separate occasion.
The Kama Sutra teaches us to continuously bring our male partners to a point just before orgasm and then switch the stroke. Prolonging the orgasmic process can help develop multi-orgasmic ability and also lead to a finishing orgasm like none other. Many couples find that they can pick two or three favourite strokes and by changing them back and forth, can maintain arousal and prolong ejaculation to a point of ecstacy.
Generally, men prefer a firm, consistent stroke. A sliding stroke which caresses the penis from tip to base and back up again is best combined with some gentle massage of his testes. Or try using both hands to alternate stroking in only one direction.
Teaser strokes involving some gentle play interspersed with an increasing number of firm up and down strokes can draw out an unbelievable orgasm.
Regardless of the strokes you and your partner settle on, the use of plenty of lubricant and some sexy talk will be sure to enhance the experience of Lingham massage.
Massaging the Yoni (female sex organs)
Almost all women are capable of multiple orgasms. This is fortunate for Tantric massage as it means that withholding orgasm will not be necessary. It is quite possible to maintain a high level of arousal through several peaks before your partner is too exhausted to continue.
Women’s arousal is far more complex than men’s, relying much on her mood and comfort levels. For this reason, communication and attention to detail is of utmost importance.
Once your partner is sufficiently relaxed, and you have permission to continue with the genital portion of the massage, begin slowly. A woman’s sex organs are very sensitive and require a significant “warming up” period before they are prepared for intense stimulation.
There are two kinds of orgasms a woman can achieve. The clitoral orgasm is the result (unsurprisingly) of clitoral stimulation. Many women find a circular motion around their clitoris very effective for this. Using the clitoral hood as the point of contact is the best way to gently bring a woman to a clitoral orgasm. Often the parts of the clitoris that can be uncovered are far too sensitive to direct contact for stimulation to be pleasant.
Many women prefer to have their vaginas full while achieving orgasm, and a couple fingers or an appropriate dildo can help with this. Make sure that your partner is aroused before inserting anything into her vagina, as the alternative is quite unpleasant.
The second kind of female orgasm is a g-spot orgasm. The g-spot is located on the front wall of the vagina, near the root of the clitoris. If you can find it, it is an intense and expedient way to bring forth multiple orgasms.
Many women experience difficulty cumming because they feel self-conscious. During Yoni massage remember to keep communication open and reassure your partner that you are enjoying the process. Keep the pressure off and you will be rewarded.
Maya Silverman is the co-author of the Erotic Massage Guide: . The guide explores the world of erotic massage, sensual massage and tantric massage for physical pleasure, emotional fufillment and spiritual bliss. Maya is also a keen advocate of the use of sensual and tantric massage in dealing with sexual problems and issues in physical and emotional intimacy.
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Breast massage instructions should be part of male (and female) everyday learning. It’s that important.
Not only is sensual breast massage a great way to increase energy and circulation of the breasts, but it is also a way to nurture self (breasts are a very maternal and emotionally charged area), and a great way for a man to give pleasure, healing and intimacy to his partner.
Breasts are wonderful things, fascinating to men and women alike. Unique, powerful and symbolic of femininity, love, passion, motherhood, sustenance, warmth, healing and pleasure. Breast massage is therefore a fantastic way to nurture and pleasure your lover (or yourself – if you are a woman!)
To give a great breast massage, a little anatomical instruction may be useful. These majestic lovelies are made up of fibrous tissue and a layer of fat; they are also very rich in blood and lymph (tissue fluid). Breast massage instructions are therefore essential to keep blood, tissue fluid, heart energy and sexual energy circulating throughout the body.
Ancient texts such as the Kama Sutra and the Tao detail the importance of breast massage to ensure a woman’s health and satisfaction. One of the biggest mistakes men make in the bedroom is to ignore the breasts or to give them minimum attention.
If this is you – hang your head in shame, and then keep reading.
According to the kama sutra:
” no part of the beloved’s body should be neglected. Her lover should make it his duty to discover them and to reveal to his mistress all the pleasure she can receive from them”
Prepare your breast massage by setting a wonderful and sensual environment. A great lover gets his or her tool ready before hand:
1. Keep your lighting soft or use candles 2. Prepare towels and a sheet to cover for modesty 3. Get good quality oils (oil, sesame, almond) ideally organic and cold-pressed extra virgin. Avoid essential oils on the breasts and intimate areas. 4. Get a glass or plastic container to hold the oil. Place this container in a bowl of warm water to heat up the oil.
Start by pouring a little of the warmed oil into your hands (always check the temperature of the oil before hand to prevent burns).
Rub your hands together, and place a hand on each breast, moving your right hand in a clockwise direction and your left hand in a counter clockwise direction. Massage the breasts in circles for at least 10 minutes.
Now focus on one breast at a time, moving from the nipple outwards towards the shoulder keeping the energies circulating around the body. Lavish love and attention to each breast for about 5-10 minutes.
Do not forget or neglect the very sensitive skin underneath and above the breasts. Make a large circular massage motion from under the breast, up and around the top part of the breast under the collar bone.
End the breast massage by placing each hand on each breast again, the right hand moving clockwise direction and the left hand moving in an anticlockwise direction. Do this for 5-10 minutes.
Finally place one or both hands gently between the breasts just above the heart. Close your eyes and imagine love energy from your heart moving down your arm into your hand(s) and into your lover’s heart. Co-ordinate your breathing to deepen intimacy. Do this for about 5 minutes.
Ladies you don’t need a partner to get a wonderful, sensual and loving breast massage. Take the time to prepare your environment just as you would if with a partner, and finish with a heart healing visualisation to give your self healing and love. Over time you will feel an increase in self-love, sensuality, emotional healing and bliss.
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