playing with fire?
Posted: March 26th, 2010 | Author: admin | Filed under: masage supplies | Tags: fire, playing | 8 Comments »my bestfriend is going to thailand this summer with her husband. they’ve been married for 15 yrs. somebody told her that there’s this nude masage parlor there and now, she wants to surprise her husband with it. she said she will pick out the girl that she knows he would really like and this girl will be giving him a body massage in which in my understanding on her description is she will be naked and she will use her own oiled body to massage him. she’s a great wife and he’s such a good husband. in 18 yrs they’ve been together, he never cheated on him. itold her what she’s doing is too risky for their marriage..she’s very positive it will not go beyond the massage.she thinks it’s better this way he gets to be with another woman without actually cheating on her.
so why try to get into temptation?
She is taking a chance starting something that won’t end.
it is a risky situation but unless there is some sort of turn on for her what can anyone say
its there decision not yours to decide what to do in there relationship
if she is ok with it then who are you to tell her any different. if she trusts him then so should you. unless you know more than what your saying. stay out of it because if you right she might blame you (you know women get like that) and if your wrong then your wrong. i recommend that you stay out of things that arnt your concern.
Playing with fire…
but maybe she likes a little heat
It is risky; all the info I have ever heard is that when a couple brings in a third – everything falls apart. He may say no sex – but who knows? AND if he is in Thailand, did you know that aids is rampant there? All in pretty gross.
I would say – just take a stroll on the beach and massage him herself
That’s a little strange to me. I am assuming that they are having issues…maybe in the bedroom? If a couple is happy with their sex lives together- why do this?
Anyway, I do think you should leave her alone and let her/them do what they want. You’ve told her what you think and it’s ultimately up to her….it may effect her marriage and that’s something she’ll have to deal with.
Not everyone cheats and it’s good that she is confident enough in her man and herself to do this. If you have a good marriage then all it will be is a massage but for those saying your playing with fire are probably the ones that don’t trust their partners to start of with.
If she is ok with it and is setting it up I don’t see a problem with it.
And if they are both consenting to it it is not cheating.