Massage - Rediscovering the wonders of massage

Modern times give people ‘instant’ everything. It gives them ‘instant’ convenience, ‘instant’ solutions and ‘instant’ results among so many others. But, amidst all the advantages it gives to people, it also brings a lot of stress that would eventually lead to serious problems.

Realizing this, most people are now rediscovering things that would somehow relieve their stressed out, busy lives. And emerging part of this new bandwagon of rediscoveries is the wonders of massage. Despite the emergence of different massage parlors, saunas and spas, enjoying a wonderful massage doesn’t have to be expensive.

And, why fish out extra bucks when you can enjoy all the benefits of massage in the comforts of your own abode with that special someone?

Whether you decide to be the massage receiver or the massage giver, it is very important to keep some things in mind to make massage a more pleasurable and memorable experience.

Massage 101

Before you start unleashing the wonders of massage to your partner, lock the door and unplug the phone first. This would ensure that you have the luxury of time to spend with each other. Since a massage is not the kind of experience you would want to do hastily, it is best if you check the room you would use. Some of the possible factors that would affect—directly or indirectly—the outcome of a relaxing massage experience is the lighting and the overall atmosphere of the room. Make sure to turn off the light but if you or your partner is the type that enjoys mystery during a massage session, you can light scented candles or let natural sunlight permeate through your opened window to provide soft and indirect lighting. Aside from providing the aroma, the warmth and the amount of light needed, the scented candle will also help set the relaxing, soothing and romantic mood.

And though you might want to play a soft sensual music throughout the massage, it is better if you keep the room quiet so you would hear and feel what delights your partner. It is also best if you would rearrange the room to give it a hands-on feeling and make sure it’s cozy and warm so both of you would be comfortable. Although it is ideal to give a massage on a firm and flat surface like a massage table, a firm mattress would do. It is also more adventurous if you will try to pile up the pillows on the solid floor to achieve that ultimate massage experience.

Some sanitary factors might also affect the massage experience. To avoid having delays to a massage, check if your hands are clean by making sure that your fingernails are properly trimmed. It is also suitable to keep your hands dry and warm by rubbing them together thoroughly. Although it not ‘a must’ to be clean before a massage, your partner definitely be more comfortable and relaxed if the essential parts of the body, like the hands and toes are clean. Ask the massage receiver if he or she would want to take a bath first before the session starts. This preparation would also enable the massage receiver and the giver to do the necessary rituals to prepare for bed.

After considering all the factors that would affect the entire session, the time comes for the actual massage. You must keep in mind that constant contact with your partner is a very important thing throughout because it helps the massage flow smoothly while increasing intimacy. It is equally important to know the pressure suitable for your partner by intently listening to their responses while asking him or her once in a while. To make the pressure just right, keep your movements symmetric, even, and rhythmic by following smooth patterns.

Since a massage is quite a wonderful experience, make sure that both of you are relaxed while taking your time and enjoying the heightened intimacy together. To make it more of a soothing experience, you can make use of massage cream or oil, which will allow your hands glide smoothly over your partner and will eventually create an amazing prelude to something more exciting.