Married Women: Would you accept an offer from your husband to receive sensual massage from a male therapist?Posted: March 11th, 2010 | Author: admin | Filed under: masage supplies | Tags: accept, from, husband, male,, married, massage, offer, receive, sensual, Therapist, Women, would | 15 Comments »
My husband and I have been married 10 years, together for 16. We are best friends, intimate lovers and true soulmates. Over the years, we found we truly enjoy the gift of massage. We have enjoyed couples massage but receive most massages seperate from each other. Over the last year, I have been fortunate to be getting my massages at home from a wonderful male therapist. I receive my massage nude and have come to the comfort level of no draping. My last massage visit had something different happen that took me by surprise. My therapist asked at the end of my massage if there as an area of my body that he had been leaving out that may need some attention. His hand position at that moment gave no doubt what “an area” meant. I told him I was unable to accept but thanked him for the offer. Later, I told my husband and he gave his approval to accept the offer next visit if I desired. This is no doubt out of his love for me! Would other wives feel this way and accept this “additional area”?
Just to clarify as it looks as if “the area” was in fact still questionable what that area is. I (we…my husband and I) believe a full body massage includes the buttocks and breasts, we have always agreed this and had no problems with it…its common in all other cultures except Western culture (America). My buttocks was included within the first couple sessions (under draping), my breasts maybe 5 or 6 sessions later (I receive massages 2-4 times a month). The draping was removed simply out of convenience and comfort once I indicated to the therapist it was OK. I have been receiving my massage now for approx. 1 year nude w/ no draping including my buttocks and breasts. So therefore “the area” is my anal and vaginal area. And for the record, my husband does also give me full body massage and includes these areas when he does. This is about allowing the therapist to do so also to bring our sessions to a higher level of release and satisfaction. Thanks everyone!
1 more thing: The question is about “would you accept the offer?” so therefore the your husband’s have already said you can if you want. I am asking for married women to be honest in stating if they would accept if given the OK from their husband’s to do so. So its not a question of “first of my husband would not allow this”. Thanks!
how funny…I knew that answer was coming eventually. “This means your husband is enjoying this offer himself from his therapist”. We are best friends, intimate lovers and true soulmates for a reason. We have been together for 16 years and married 10 for the same reason. Reason: Trust, Honesty, Respect and Communication (that includes those elements). I can stand up for my husband and say that “he is not receiving this service from his therapist” because if it had been offered he would have came to me with it just as I came to him. And for the record, “would I mind if he was receiving this service from his therapist”. I don’t truthfully know. If we get there, we will discuss it and I will decided then. Do I love and trust him enough to allow him this if he desired, yes I do! Does he love and respect me enough to accept if I said no, yes he does! Thanks everyone…
why when we read do you choose to to only understand part of what we have just read? Its called perception. Once we have already precieved the situation, we close out any further influence apart from the perception made. Point 1: We have been recieving massage for approx. half (8) of the years we’ve been married. Point 2: Have never had a massage in this time period that was not fully nude…no matter the therapist, male or female. We do not have any concern with our nudity in this practice or at all for that matter. Point 3: If we were getting divorced because of some form of jealousy, guilt, shame, conviction…we would have already done that. For approx. 8 years, we have both been naked in front of mutiple others with hands as close as you can get to a genital area without it being direct. Point 4: Appears most married women live with the spirit of adultry. In fear that if they or their spouse was put in a place of temptation, they could not resist. The enemy has you here…
Sorry! I put in Point 1 above “approx. half of the years we have been married”. Should have said, half the years we have been together almost all the years we have been married. And, thank-you for the answers,,,its helps us to truly see that we have a sacred marriage bond much more as He created it to be than most others. A bond without jealousy, shame, guilt, fustration, dishonesty, mistrust, nonrespect, etc…all the emotions of the enemy. Instead we have a marriage of love, respect, honor, sacrifice, joy fulfilled…all the emotions of our Creator.