can someone tell me if am I wrong?
Posted: March 27th, 2010 | Author: admin | Filed under: masage supplies | Tags: someone, tell, wrong | 23 Comments »I always insisted to send my wife for a nude erotic massage and love to watch him (the massuer) caressing her body especially the breast and the bottom. This went on for the past 5 months. At first she was reluctant but after much persuasion she gave in because I told her that it would get me very excitedly aroused and improve our love life but after each massage she told me she feel dirty. Am I wrong and should I stop sending her to these massages?
Lay off of her. If she doesn’t like it, stop making her do it. Sex isn’t just for you and about you getting off, it has to be mutual.
if she isn’t comfortable with it, don’t make her go. She will end up resenting you.
If it makes her feel that way you shouldnt make her do it. Why dont you give her an erotic massage instead
Personally – that’s gross! I wouldn’t want my husband watching me get massaged by someone else and I don’t think he would like it either.
Try getting some oils and massaging her yourself.
Wrong isn’t the answer, just downright stupid. I pity your poor wife.
Do them yourself; don’t keep treating her like a peep show.
you are a very selfish man. Making you wife feel that way just because you like it it’s just plain wrong. She should leave you
Yes you should stop !!!! it obviously makes her uncomfmortable !!!!! she is YOUR wife and is only for you don’t let some guy be all over her do it yourself !!!!!
If it makes her feel dirty, why have her do it, maybe you both can come up with something that will get you HOT and her too!!
I think that you should stop. It’s her body and if she claims she doesn’t feel uncomfortable, but is kind enough to only imply that she wants you to stop instead of slapping you and MAKING YOUR LIFE MISERABLE LIKE ANOTHER WOMAN WOULD HAVE DONE, you should respect her, stop being selfish, and quit sending her to the massages.
If she wanted one, she would have gone by herself.
yes, i think both partners need to be comfortable in what they are doing in order to please each other sexually. Try something else let her make suggestions on things that she would like and compromise
Stop!!!!!!!!!!!You never should have pushed her into it. don’t you realize what a blessing you have in the wife you have. She wants only you.
Yes stop sending her to these and learn to do it yourself. She will enjoy it much more and you will surely like the results you get better. Be a DIY guy… Do it yourself!!!!
i am surprised she hasnt kicked you out of the house and decided the other dude can do it better. after all he is a fully trained pro. will she now ever be satisfied with you? probably not!
If your wife does not feel comfortable then you should not ask her to do it again. This does not mean give up on finding exciting things to do. Just be aware of what your wife likes and dislikes are .
your only wrong if you force her to do it again against her will.
Are you stupid? PAY ATTENTION TO THE FACT THAT YOUR WIFE IS NOT INTO THIS AND THAT SHE IS NOT TURNED ON BY THIS AS YOU ARE. You should consider yourself very LUCKY that she PUTS UP WITH THIS FOR YOUR BENEFIT!!! Ask her is she wants to go back if not, don’t force her too…Why can’t you give her a massage and if you like…video tape it and watch it to get your jollies…she wont feel so dirty then because it will be with you not someone else. FOCUS on HER WANTS and Feelings for a change!
ABSOLUTELY STOP! The biggest way to RUIN a love-life is to make your partner feel cheap or dirty. Especially when there are soooo many other ways to spice up a sex life! Try roll playing, toys, watching porn (or creating your own together), or doing your OWN sensual massages together…I’ve even heard putting on sexy shows for each other works well.
Your not wrong, your looking for fire. She now is becoming uncomfortable with it… Seek another idea that you will both have fun with. Kudo’s to the both of you for trying. Good Luck
You should do the massage, get a video like Playboy’s Oriental Massage and watch and learn and enjoy.Your wife might think all you want to do is have sex and not touch her, she might just run to the massage guy and let him do more than massage her.
Let’s see, she TOLD you she didn’t want to do it. Then you nagged at her because you knew it would satisfy YOU. Then she told you she didn’t enjoy it because it made her feel dirty. What are you confused about?
YES, you are wrong. Stop berating her into doing what you want for your own sexual pleasure. Have a little respect, she is your wife, after all.
Your sexual fantasy is quite unique.
I value the fact that your wife did that for you… she obviously loves you very much.
But she feels uncomfortable with it now, so perhaps respecting that would be a good thing.
There are many others ways to improve a sex life….. how about giving her that massage instead …. show how that you appreciated what she did….
Just leave her alone she may be getting sick of the same moves just leave her alone for now and try something new! be yourself
Yes, you are wrong and you should stop sending her to these massages. However, since you’ve seen her get these massages the past 5 months, you saw what the guy did to her, and you could give her those massages yourself. I’ll bet you get just as turned on giving her the massages, as you did watching her get them. And the nice thing about your giving her massages is that you can take them even farther, even all the way !!