Best friends that fooled around?
Posted: April 3rd, 2010 | Author: admin | Filed under: masage supplies | Tags: Around, best, fooled, friends | 5 Comments »I have a best friend that I have liked for over a year. He recently became single and since then and even before he was single he had asked me for some nude photos, has flirted with me and asked if I’ve ever made a porn tape, asked what type of boys I was into etc. Well we spent Valentines day together and it was nice. Only as friends but we gave each other massages and just had a nice time. Then since I gave him a good massage he said I could come back in a few days for a massage. We ended up fooling around, I took off my top and bra and showed him my ‘goodies’ and he showed me his. I ended up giving him a handjob and he touched me down there but did not do anything, just touched. This was on Monday and we are still very friendly with each other but not flirty anymore. Im confused. We also havent talked about what happended but I dunno what to say about it. If he liked me or he just wanted to see me naked because he said I had a great body. Hes been VERY busy with graduating soon but
I am still so confused. Also, on facebook I left him a comment, a few this past few months. They werent flirty or anything but he told me I couldnt write on his wall anymore because rumors were startin to get spread. Yet other female firends are allowed to with no problem, even if they are flirting or not. I am so confused. He told me not to take the fact that I cant write on his wall anymore personally but I am so confused over it. He is really a very nice and sweet guy and has been my best friend for two years but I dunno what to say or do anymoire. I like him so much but he has said time and time again he doesnt want to get in my pants yet he askes me for naked photos and then touches me down there or gives me massages or comments on how my body looks so great, yet he doesnt want to get in my pants. This is unfair to me. He also leaves in august so I was debating staying over the suymmr so I see him again before he goes, but I dunno if its worth it
Well, I hate to break it to you, but you already gave him what he wanted. He obviously isn’t interested enough for another go-around with you.
That’s what happens when you “fool around” with guys. Don’t do that kind of stuff unless you are in a committed relationship. That’s probably why he doesn’t want you to post on his Facebook – he doesn’t want anyone to think he’s been fooling around someone so loose.
I hate to be so gruff, but what did you expect???? Guys like to fool around with girls like you, but they don’t see you as girlfriend material.
Write him off and try to use a little more restraint next time, sweetheart.
He doensnt sound worth it to me. A good friend was all he was and it was fun but its time to move on because its going to happen anyway, its just better to cut clean before more hostility builds inside.
Well you guys are obviously more than friends.
He likes you, but he’s not at a point in his life where he wants a serious relationship. So, he’s just interested in fooling around and having a good time with no strings. Ask yourself honestly if that is all you want, because it sounds like you want more.
BTW, whatever you do, DO NOT let anyone take nude photos of you and DO NOT make any porn tapes unless you’re completely fine with everyone seeing it on the Internet. Those things always seem to find there way into people’s inboxes and certain websites.
Sounds like a true situation!..I would take him out to dinner and say HEY DO YOU TRULY LOVE ME!?
Stop trying to read so much into comments that are made online and go talk to the man!